Friday, May 31, 2013

Building Rapport with the Audience

How to Build Rapport with the Audience?

Building Rapport

• Consider yourself honored to speak—and say so.

• Give your listeners sincere appreciation.

• Mention some of your listeners by name.

• Play yourself down, not up.

• Say "we"-not "you."

• Smile and speak naturally.

• Talk in terms of your listeners' interests.

• Have a good time.

• Don't apologize.

• Appeal to the nobler emotions of your audience.

• Welcome criticism.

• Be a "good person skilled in speaking."

Dale Carnegie's Best Selling Books:

Build Listener Rapport


How to Build Listener Rapport?


1. Consider yourself honored by being asked to address an audience—and say so!

2. Give your listeners sincere appreciation.

3. Mention the names of some listeners.

4. Play yourself down—not up!

5. Say "we"—not "you."

6. Don't talk with "a scowling face and an upbraiding voice."

7. Talk in terms of your listeners' interests.

8. Have a good time making your talk.

9. Don't apologize.

10.Appeal to the nobler emotions of your audience.

11.Welcome criticism—instead of resenting it. Be a "good person skilled in speaking."

Dale Carnegie's Best Selling Books:

Be a Leader


Changing Attitudes and Behaviors

Be a Leader
1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.

2. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.

3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.

4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.

5. Let the other person save face.

6. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."

7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.

8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.

9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

Dale Carnegie's Best Selling Books:

Why Talk Statements

What is a Why Talk Statement?

Why Talk Statement
This is another option to use when you are ready to transition from your opening to the purpose of your visit. A Why Talk Statement is designed to sell people on the value of meeting with you, and set clear expectations for the meeting. You can do this verbally or in writing. Why Talk Statements are especially helpful when you are dealing with people who like to get right to business. For them, beginning in a pleasant way means getting immediately to the matter.

Why Talk Statement Elements

Benefit of meeting—Cite a benefit of the meeting itself, not your product. Why should this buyer spend time with you? People's time has become a very scarce resource. Many doctors are now charging salespeople for their time. We need to be able to give people value, even if they don't do business with us immediately.

Agenda points—Briefly review the outcomes of the meeting, from a buyer's point of view. What they should expect from you, and you from them. This is a valuable step if you are making a more formal presentation, like to a buying team or group. Ask if they want to add anything to the agenda.

Advance—Next, we smoothly carry the sales interview to the next level. In many cases we will want to ask questions to clarify their needs. We may choose to use a Credibility Statement here, or relate some of the key points we discovered in our pre-approach.

Why Talk Example

1. Today we will be reviewing the issues you are considering in a new phone system and ensure the system would be perceived as a positive step by your associates. There are some recent changes in technology and in regulations that are important for you, even if we don't do business together.

2. Here are some points we can cover:
  • First, let's review the challenges you are facing in changing the phone system.
  • Next, let's bring two of your employees into our meeting and ask them about their issues and needs.
  • Then, let's see how that ties into what management is looking for.
  • Finally, let's determine what criteria you will be basing your buying decision on so that we can provide you with an accurate proposal.

3. How does that sound?

4. Do you have any other points?

5. May I ask you a few questions about your phone system needs?

Dale Carnegie's Best Selling Books:

Visuals: Why and When


Why?

Visuals: Why and When
• They help dramatize ideas.

• The guide the presentation direction.

Be careful as visuals should not be used as a crutch by the presenter, nor should the presenter read word for word from the visuals.

• They make the message easy to understand.

• They add color, drama, and pacing to the presentation.


When?

• Presenting data that may be difficult to grasp to an audience

If ratios are important, trying to compare data that you can't see is difficult if not impossible. It can also be boring.

• Listing several items or a series of items

If they have to be compared or if sequence is vital, seeing them is essential. It helps clarify steps and aids retention.

• Explaining a complicated process

This allows the audience to follow you at their own speed. Since some people grasp relationships more rapidly than others do, a visual accommodates both learning styles.

• Retention is important

About 10% of what Is heard is remembered. Only 30% of what is seen is remembered, but over 50% of what is seen and heard is remembered.

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